You know you love him and you feel that you would be happy if you got back together, but are you being totally honest with yourself? Is it really him you miss or is the idea of having someone to love you that you miss? It's common knowledge that we all want and need love and this need can lead us to feeling a false love for someone who really isn't right for us. Before you even think about getting your ex back stop and really consider if he's really the right man for you.

You may well come to the conclusion that you really don't want him back after all and that the break up is the best thing for the both of you. Think back over how your relationship with him was. Did he do or say things that you didn't like, and maybe even cause you to behave in a way that actually drove him off? Was he causing you to get mad and start fights, or maybe you where starting to nag him in order to get him to behave the way you think your ideal man should behave.

Remember that if you do decide that you want to get your ex boyfriend back it's going to mean that you will have to make some changes in the way you act. After all why would he come back to the same set of problems he had before? Can you really be comfortable with yourself if you make the changes that are necessary to get him back, or would you be better off with someone more ideally suited to the person you are now? Think back over how your relationship with him was.

I know that it's not easy to consider the fact that he maybe isn't the right man for you when you are missing him and feeling lonely and dejected, but you will be doing yourself a great favor by honestly considering the possibility before you decide to try to get him back. If you do decide that you want to get your boyfriend back, you can't just lay there and hope he comes back, you need to take a pro-active approach. Think back over how your relationship with him was.